Expecting another baby is exciting, but it can also be a big adjustment for older siblings. Involving them in the pregnancy journey helps them feel included, reduces jealousy, and builds a strong sibling bond before the baby even arrives. At Baby Dimensions in Newnan, GA, we love seeing families share the ultrasound experience together. Here’s how you can make your older child feel special during this time.
1. Announce the Pregnancy in a Fun Way
Sharing the news in a creative and engaging way can make siblings feel excited from the start.
- Give them a “Big Brother” or “Big Sister” T-shirt.
- Read a fun book about becoming a sibling.
- Involve them in a gender reveal or ultrasound appointment.
Pro Tip: Bring your child to a 3D, 4D, or HDLive ultrasound session so they can “meet” their baby sibling before birth. Seeing the baby’s tiny hands and movements makes everything feel real!
2. Let Them Help Pick the Baby’s Name
While you may not give them full control, letting your child suggest baby names (even silly ones!) helps them feel included.
- Make a short list of names and ask for their opinion.
- Have them guess the baby’s gender and pick a name for each possibility.
- Make it fun by writing names on slips of paper and drawing one out.
3. Involve Them in Baby Prep
Getting ready for the baby’s arrival can be a bonding experience. Let your child:
- Help set up the nursery.
- Choose an outfit for the baby to wear home from the hospital.
- Pack something special in the hospital bag, like a stuffed animal for the baby.
Tip: Give them a “helper” role so they feel responsible and important.
4. Create a Baby Countdown Together
Help them visualize how much time is left before the baby arrives with a fun countdown:
- A sticker chart counting down the weeks.
- A calendar where they can mark off each day.
- A paper chain where they remove a link each day until the due date.
Alternative: Compare the baby’s size to fun objects (e.g., “This week, your baby sibling is as big as a pineapple!”).
5. Encourage Bonding Before Birth
Even before the baby arrives, siblings can start forming a connection:
- Let them talk or sing to the baby in your belly.
- Have them draw pictures for the baby.
- Play a game where they gently feel for baby kicks.
At Baby Dimensions, we’ve seen so many heartwarming moments when siblings get to see their baby on an ultrasound. Many get excited and wave at the screen!
6. Prepare Them for What to Expect
A newborn can be an adjustment, especially when they require so much attention. Help set expectations by:
- Explaining that babies cry a lot because that’s how they communicate.
- Letting them play with a baby doll to practice being gentle.
- Watching videos or reading books about what newborns do.
7. Celebrate Their New Role
Becoming a big brother or sister is a big deal!
- Plan a “Big Sibling Day” where they get special attention.
- Let them be the first to meet the baby after delivery.
- Give them a small gift “from the baby” to help with the transition.
Creating Lasting Memories with Baby Dimensions
At Baby Dimensions, we love helping families bond during pregnancy. Whether it’s seeing their baby sibling during an ultrasound or helping parents create a special moment, we’re here for you!
Want to include your child in a 3D, 4D, or HDLive ultrasound experience? Call us at (770) 502-0225 or book online to schedule your appointment today!
